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The Cost of Ecstasy: Beyond the Bedroom

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  The initial rush of a new relationship, often called the   " honeymoon phase " or " limerence "   by psychologists, is a powerful, chemically induced state. Driven by a surge of dopamine, oxytocin, and other neurochemicals, it floods us with euphoria and intense, almost obsessive, attraction. It's during this intoxicating period that we often wear rose-tinted glasses, overlooking potential issues and seeing only an idealized version of our partner. But inevitably, the veil drops. The chemical haze clears, and we're left face-to-face with our partner's authentic self, flaws and all. This stark revelation leads to a deeply uncomfortable question: should you really endure a relationship with someone exhibiting narcissistic or even psychopathic traits , simply for the sake of exceptional sexual intimacy? The Allure and the Aftermath I'll readily admit, in some past relationships, the  sexual chemistry was undeniably off the charts . The connection in ...