Your Capacity Of Loving

In life, you can lose as well as gain a lot of things. In fact, we weep, the majority of times, over the loss of material things without taking into considerations those things that we let out of our hands, and which are related to our inner world.

Not many people have in mind their capacity of loving. As our days turn hard in a convulsing world we just get used to watch love in a Hollywood movie, though. Our capacity of loving goes further than the act of falling in love.

Perhaps, some people don’t know about what I am talking because they come from either a dysfunctional family where love was inexistent or a family where love didn’t matter, so it’s as to ask a child about something that he doesn’t know. However, you could be aware of what is the capacity of loving, but you have lost it as consequence of a broken heart, many failed relationships, a bitter divorce or bad experiences in life.

The capacity of loving is the element that grants you the ability of appreciate the valuable and treasurable things of live, which aren’t concerned with materialism. When you lose the capacity of loving you aren’t able to establish any emotional link with anyone –no matter the nature of your relationship with that person, nor dare to risk of having a relationship, neither enjoy reading a beautiful poem as simply as that. Although it is said that we don’t stop loving, we just put our love over the wrong thing; anyway you can lose your capacity of loving and going through life without it, living a shallow existence which is always empty.

When somebody has lost his capacity of loving, he’d better start immediately for getting this back. And he should do it trying to love or grabbing the chance of loving someone that a relationship gives. Otherwise, not trying doing this is not to get over the capacity of loving, and condemn to living in a black and white world.